Archive for March 28, 2012

are you strong enough?

Posted: March 28, 2012 in story over coffee

I recently read this blog, it was the suggestion from other traveler girls that I found in the morning in my twitter. It’s a nice way of describing about how worthed dating a girl who travels. I mean how simple we are as a human being, of course we don’t sweat out a small thing. And we don’t do drama to make people pay attention for us. The worst things we have seen during travels make us appreciate life more and of course people in it. I love the way when she described “a girl who travels has developed a higher appreciation for life. She won’t judge you or pressure you to do things you don’t want to do. She knows too much about the importance of identity and self-efficacy”.

But maybe i have a little disagreement about how easy to date a girl who travels. Well, of course we don’t ask for expensive gifts. It’s not our first concern. But for guys who want to date a girl who travels, you have to be very tough or a real strong one. Because you have to deal with the distance that we know it’s not easy to bear and the longing feeling which even harder to bear. I mean, I know it’s not easy to be always separated from the person you care about, the person you love. And when you have one destination, she probably has another. But there are always something that we can discuss about and to find the solution. Because a girl who travels, she actually has the ability to adapt and to deal with different perspectives. In the end, it’s the matter of you guys being tough enough to fight to keep the girl who travels or not.  So, Guys.. are you strong enough to date and later to keep us?